da list

ok here is the list of things i need, and things i already have:

the dress
pick my bridesmaids and maid of honor
his tux
choose the location
SECURE the location
guest list
choosing my hairdo
his ring
my ring
colors for my bridesmaids
sending them all a swatch of the fabric with the perfect SHADE
pick the date
invitations
dee jay (my ipod...i need a little money to send away for the stupid offers in the free ipod thing..i know it works because diane got one last month)
officiate
choosing the themeFLOWERS!!!
choosing my flowers
making bouquets
food for reception
location for reception (rene says theres a place where there are barbeques near where i'm getting married...but i wanna see it first)
song list for reception
my veil
my shoes
choosing a flowergirl
choosing a ring bearer
choosing honeymoon location
buying plane tickets for honeymoon
reserving hotel stays for honeymoon
saving at least $500 for spending money on honeymoon
saving at least $200 for car rental for honeymoon
making my registry
cake topper
choosing what kind of cake i would like
finding someone to make my cake!
garter belt
his shoes (probably just his work shoes but shined up)
chairs for the ceremony
music for the ceremony (maybe just a stereo with the bridal march being played???)
my jewlery
best man and groomsmen (a few people he has in mind...but nothing set yet)
decorations for the ceremony and reception (i'm thinking like...periwinkle ribbons around the bridge that i'll be walking down and fake flowers all over the railings and gazebo with flower scented candles)
attire for guests (either formal, semi formal, casual/formal...what!!!)
plans for my "florida reception" (my mom lives in florida, i'm in washington state. she feels i should have a florida reception so other people in my family & my friends can celebrate without shelling out money for plane tickets and hotel reservations. i like the idea, i just need to PLAN the freakin thing!!)
choosing colors dark pink and periwinkle? not 100% yet


ok and thats all i've got for now. i will be updating this more and more. keeping it in my memories...etc